Question...
I have invited people to my birthday party set for next weekend.
However in the past I have always had people RVSP with a 'yes I will be attending' and they always flake out on me. So in short I've always had people-less parties that, well, suck.
In (loosely) planning I am already feeling really anxious. I have pretty much settle don the fact that Idon't want to have a party. I have always had such bad experinces with planning such events as this. It is embaressing to put forth all of the effort to not have anyone come. I hate waiting for the doorbell, or a knock that never happens. Or at least a phone call sending condolensces of not being to attend at the last minute.
Should I still have this birthday party, next weekend, or just cancel so I don't have to endure the torment of anxiety it always gives me?
anxiousHowever in the past I have always had people RVSP with a 'yes I will be attending' and they always flake out on me. So in short I've always had people-less parties that, well, suck.
In (loosely) planning I am already feeling really anxious. I have pretty much settle don the fact that Idon't want to have a party. I have always had such bad experinces with planning such events as this. It is embaressing to put forth all of the effort to not have anyone come. I hate waiting for the doorbell, or a knock that never happens. Or at least a phone call sending condolensces of not being to attend at the last minute.
Should I still have this birthday party, next weekend, or just cancel so I don't have to endure the torment of anxiety it always gives me?